Last night, me, yaya, xana miller, and all my other "healthy allied sciences" friends went to this talk entitled "The Challenge of Generation Y". The speaker was Uztad Hasrizal also known as Abu Saif in his blog Saifulislam.com.
I've learnt so many things from his speech. The most important one is that he said "when we're dealing with people that appear to be having some sort of problem or difficulties in life, don't look at the presenting problems because actually the real problems are deeper."
1. the presenting problems.
2. the real problems.
When we realize that the real problems are more deeper than the presenting problems then we can handle the situation without anger.
Recently I'm having this problem~ I'm not good in managing work ~for example by the end of this semester, my whole class were asked to conduct a screening program in a school. I admitted my friends have done a lot of good work. unfortunately they elected me as the assistant program manager but I have to admit that I didn't do much. The only work I've done was sending the proposal letter to Miss Marina (our lecturer). huhu. I hope I can have more work than that. I hate my position and I hate being me right now.
I've realized that everyone are stressed out because of tons of work, assignments, and the finals are just around the corner, and everyone tend to be all grumpy and moody. Even the slightest problem become a major hindrance and sometime "we" even put our anger on others. Why? huhu. I'm a happy go lucky person~ I hate people to get mad around me (especially when I'm not the one making you mad). However, eventually I kept on smiling. At least I'm not cursing and mocking others and I know my own problems is more suffocating for me. So stop suffocating others. Why just can't we cooperate? By the end of the days we're sitting for the same paper.
